How To Lead Using This Guide

Good connection questions are easy for everyone to answer, especially new people to your group, based on personal experiences rather than Bible knowledge, have no right or wrong answers, avoid controversial topics, and relate to the meeting’s theme.

Tips on how to guide the discussion: Guide the discussion by clearly explaining Scripture, using relatable stories or examples, and focusing on understanding rather than just covering points. Help group members see how the message applies to their lives and encourage them to apply God’s Word (ex: If it’s a promise, trust it). Let God’s love inspire without pressuring anyone, and suggest simple, practical steps to take.

For a meaningful discussion, consider dividing into smaller groups if there are more than six people to ensure everyone has a chance to participate. Focus on the most relevant questions rather than trying to cover everything. Foster a safe and welcoming environment where people feel comfortable sharing honestly, knowing that everyone is at a different stage in their faith journey. Avoid judgment and instead encourage openness and respectful conversations. Stay on topic, promote personal reflection rather than criticism, and trust that God will work in each person’s heart as you guide the discussion with care and encouragement.

Break up into groups of 2-3 for prayer. During prayer time, listen for prayer needs, pray for each other rather than just sharing requests, keep prayers short, simple, and heartfelt, avoid “pray preaching”, and expect God to move.

End the meeting by encouraging everyone to try out the weekly challenge. Announce any events the church is having that week (such as baptism, Serve Saturday, etc.). Remind them to stay in touch throughout the week and to reconnect for small group whenever you are meeting again.